"My Wife Thinks I'm Gay"

you commenters need to get a life. seriously. I'm a woman and I greatly enjoy pornography for both the women and the men. I have no problem with my husband "taking care of himself" if I'm not about. Poster, you should have been honest and up-front with your wife to begin with, but since it's too late for that, all you can do is be honest now. Show her the posts. find out exactly what it is that's causing her to be upset. Once you figure out the real reason she's pissed, you'll be able to figure out how to fix it. If your wife just can't accept you for who you are, maybe she's not the right woman. :shrug: Not saying you should give up, but if she absolutely refuses to get over this, then odds are she was looking for a reason to leave anyway.

I am a woman and I personally do not find it immature. I think that fantasies are just that...fantatsies. Its a wonderful thing to bring spice into your mariage. However, I think that you should have let your wife in on the secret. Communication is the key to a healthy marriage. You negleted to do so, and you have probably made her feel inadiquate, and is also currently questioning your sexual preference. I would suggest marraige counceling. clearly you two need a mediator to tackle this problem.